I was asked by a friend of mine why my ideal match on orkut says "am self-sufficient". Well, even I had never thought about this column very seriously!! For now all I can say that the term "ideal match" is an idealism in itself! Nobody can be an ideal match forever for the simple reason that, "Change is the universal law of nature". People change/d or atleast I change/d! Indeed, I have changed a lot... my thoughts are no more what they used to be a couple of years ago. Actually, my present thoughts contradict the ones which I had few years ago!!
Also, I don't believe am made to love someone. It involves risks... risk of love not being reciprocated, risk of rejection, risk of loss of love, if it existed in the first place! And, am not bold enough to take that risk! Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings! So, Whenever I am betrayed, am rejected, a part of me dies, and I am no more the same. Am metamorphosed to someone with less faith, carrying the corpse of the dead 'me'!
Alas! I can't throw that away.
The second reason is that the beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. So, the best match for me is/can be is 'me' and that makes me self sufficient!
Finally, making a girl love you is so very easy because no one but Marilyn Monroe herself has said "...If you can make a girl laugh - you can make her do anything..."
I swear I am very good at making anyone laugh but then, so are many in this wide world! :P
I've Learned..... - Author Unknown
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I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be
someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned that no matter how...
12 years ago
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